tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post309020018106766579..comments2024-03-22T20:22:44.017-04:00Comments on Life in Quotations: How Do You Define Cheating?Barryhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04641761671561288846noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-71463405081431240732010-11-25T16:06:20.621-05:002010-11-25T16:06:20.621-05:00I don't know. I have zero clue. I'm relati...I don't know. I have zero clue. I'm relationship-challeged and need assistance. I'll let you know... maybe one day?!<br /><br />:)Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00400632986764577294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-78025254939627274312010-11-22T23:06:01.826-05:002010-11-22T23:06:01.826-05:00THis is a sensitive issue. I agree that emotional ...THis is a sensitive issue. I agree that emotional cheating can be worse at times. I am dating someone but still share my hopes and dreams with someone else.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-85680397386104451452010-11-22T21:11:08.604-05:002010-11-22T21:11:08.604-05:00"The worst ... when your other half puts othe..."The worst ... when your other half puts others ahead of you. That is where I have an issue." Sandy said it better than I could have myselfBrainlesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13931126698284784665noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-82792676217962404142010-11-21T18:11:30.258-05:002010-11-21T18:11:30.258-05:00As the other half of this crazy duo, I can tell yo...As the other half of this crazy duo, I can tell you I agree wholeheartedly with Barry. I have always been a flirt. I can't help myself, I'm just built (literally) that way.<br />If you love and respect and keep each other as the most important part of your lives, what's the problem.<br />The issue for me is when it gets emotional. When the one person becomes too close to someone else. <br />The worst ... when your other half puts others ahead of you. That is where I have an issue.<br />Hugs to all.Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00841951459550135685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-51285940533532165952010-11-21T17:45:03.697-05:002010-11-21T17:45:03.697-05:00There are so many factors and feelings...its confu...There are so many factors and feelings...its confusing to one whats cheating and whats not...Miss.Stefaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11534332531435306786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-89684366648460535352010-11-21T17:28:35.806-05:002010-11-21T17:28:35.806-05:00I agree this with much of this, although there'...I agree this with much of this, although there's something I would like to add. I think there is such a thing as emotional cheating, and I realize the discussion surrounding it is controversial. Personally, I don't think there's any bigger way to cheat than to be in a relationship with one person yet only be able to share your hopes, dreams and darkest secrets with somebody else. In my opinion, two people in love should be soul mates, best friends, and everything in between. <br /><br />As always, I am in awe of your wisdom regarding relationships. I find much of this personally useful and applicable to my life. :)Philosophiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10964164170562164266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-31813492120397482752010-11-21T11:20:36.699-05:002010-11-21T11:20:36.699-05:00I think it crosses the line if you're doing so...I think it crosses the line if you're doing something you wouldn't feel comfortable doing in front of your significant other. And this can be so variable. It's also good for partners to pick people with similar thresholds and also to maintain a lot of trust and communication.aspleniahttp://asplenia.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-77009635816979589602010-11-20T20:35:06.615-05:002010-11-20T20:35:06.615-05:00Great post Barry!!! This is an interestting topic ...Great post Barry!!! This is an interestting topic as so many variables can apply. I do agree if your spouse/partner is uncomfortable with certain behaviours .. you need to consider their feelings I think it comes down to how would you feel if what you are about to or thinking of doing would make you feel if your partner or spouse were to do it. Respect is a huge component here... HHLhighheeledlifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07205935979513877589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-91892893677575715312010-11-20T19:09:28.533-05:002010-11-20T19:09:28.533-05:00I don't mind if my significant other is close ...I don't mind if my significant other is close to another girl. Around 70% of my friends are boys and we're all very comfortable with each other. I wouldn't like it if he restricts my friendship with my guy friends. So I don't mind if he is close to another girl. As long as its just friendship.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15813779501080411921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-56230584499869774842010-11-20T15:28:14.271-05:002010-11-20T15:28:14.271-05:00I really respect how you view cheating. I can'...I really respect how you view cheating. I can't really argue with anything you wrote because that's exactly how I feel towards it. If I saw my significant other laughing or talking or even hugging a girl, I honestly won't mind. I'm flexible towards flirting, if the intentions are normal. But if they're like actually flirting, like the lovely dovely type. Then o.m.g. I will turn into a ninja person.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3462832360617892797.post-67209638044444645342010-11-20T14:29:04.759-05:002010-11-20T14:29:04.759-05:00I'm not really sure. I think a huge factor is...I'm not really sure. I think a huge factor is context, and thus depends on the situation, the person, etc. But I really do think it comes down to intent. I am an attention whore and love a good flirt, so I don't judge people who do it. But I'm not sure I want my boyfriend to see me, or see him do it, even though I know in my head it's totally harmless. P.S. that photo is hilarious.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com