Friday, February 12, 2010

Secret Friday


TGIF!  We're heading into a long weekend in Canada as Monday is a holiday (Family Day).   I know some of you have already begun your weekend so I hope it's off to a good start.

Time now for the tenth installment of Secret Friday, a chance to anonymously share some secrets and/or fantasies you've kept to yourself. Some are uplifting, some are heartbreaking and some are just plain naughty.

All are valid.

If you get something from this I hope you'll consider hosting one on your blog as well. Feel free to copy and paste the guidelines below if you choose. All I ask is that you keep a regular eye on your feedback; contributions can be intense sometimes and people writing in need to be respected. It's very important. If you decide to do this on your blog please, please let me know. If we link to each other I think we could start something great.

Okay, here's how it works:

1) This is open to anyone who wishes to participate, from regular follower to casual visitor.

2) Post a secret or fantasy anonymously, no names please. It can be anything from mild to wild, anything goes. All I ask is that it's true. You can post as many as you're comfortable with.

3) I don't plan to censor content or language. However I do reserve the right to remove anything which appears to be posted with the sole intent of offending. I also reserve the right not to remove content that may be considered controversial. It's a fine line sometimes.

4) If you're someone who is easily offended by swearing or sexual content you may not want to read through the comments. I have no idea where this will go and won't be reviewing comments until after they are posted.

5) I'll be participating as well. (After nine of these I have to dig deeper!)

6) Feedback directed towards me is welcome, anonymously or otherwise.

7) As always I'd like everyone to please refrain from commenting on what someone else has written; what may seem trivial to you can be very personal to someone else. Everyone has feelings and I want to see them respected, therefore inappropriate remarks will be removed.

And now to it...


  1. Here is my one and major secret that I have never told anyone, I REGRET getting married, I was pushed into it. The only reason I stay is beacuse I truly feel I have no other choice, I have to make this work and push mysefl to a better future then I will divorce this man, no questions asked, on the mean time I consider haveing sex with other men, all the time, it makes me crazy after all I am only 21.........

  2. I had an abortion last summer, because I don't have a job and I'm really young to have kids, and I feel it is the worst mistake of my life. Now I feel like I don't have the right to have them in the future.

  3. There are so many men in my life and they're all useless,yet I like them being around

  4. I get exhausted trying to make everyone else happy.

  5. I feel trapped in a passionless marriage... a best friend, but no passion, a great provider but no passion.

  6. I'm dreading Sunday...

  7. I have a hard time staying true to myself. I find myself changing to please others.

  8. I think I might be pregnant.

  9. I think my boyfriend is the biggest jerk in the world. I just don't tell him.

  10. hi barry how are u thats great too see u

    great secret 5

  11. I wish more people would depend on me and make me care after them.This way it wont be a crime if i needed attention or leaned on any one....

  12. I like to watch others fail. it makes me feel better

  13. I'm getting tired of trying to take care of myself and someone else.