Friday, June 4, 2010
Secret Friday- Your 'First Time'
What else is there to say but TGIF! I can't wait for the weekend, but first I'd like to turn your attention to something new. Secret Fridays has a new face.
Each week I'll be featuring a question. Although it'll be the theme of the post, also feel free to write in with a secret about anything else you like. I'll continue with these questions until I run out of ideas, which is where you come in. If you have a suggestion on a question to ask, please drop me an e-mail. Make your question as conservative or racy as you'd like, all will be considered and may be used.
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Today's question is: How was your 'first time'? (How old were you and your partner? Was it all you imagined it would be? If you haven't yet had sex, what do you envision your first time being like?)
Comments can be left anonymously.
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Welcome to the twenty-fifth installment of Secret Friday, a chance to share some secrets and/or fantasies you've been keeping to yourself. Some are uplifting, some are heartbreaking and some are just plain naughty.
All are valid.
If you get something from this I hope you'll consider hosting one on your blog as well. Feel free to copy and paste the guidelines below if you choose. All I ask is that you keep a regular eye on your feedback; contributions can be intense sometimes and people writing in need to be respected.
Here's how it works:
1) This is open to anyone who wants to participate, from regular follower to casual visitor.
2) Post a secret or fantasy anonymously, no names please. It can be anything from mild to wild, anything goes. All I ask is that it's true. You can post as many as you're comfortable with.
3) I don't plan to censor content or language. However I do reserve the right to remove anything which appears to be posted with the sole intent of offending. I also reserve the right not to remove content that may be considered controversial. It's a fine line sometimes.
4) If you're someone who is easily offended by swearing or sexual content you may not want to read through the comments. I have no idea where this will go and won't be reviewing comments until after they are posted.
5) Feedback about this feature is welcome, anonymously or otherwise.
6) As always I'd like everyone to please refrain from commenting on what someone else has written; what may seem trivial to you can be very personal to someone else. Everyone has feelings and I want to see them respected, therefore inappropriate remarks will be removed. Fortunately this hasn't been an issue and I'd like to thank all of you for that.
And now to it...
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Ok... Barry. I'm blushing now. :) Shame on you!!!! Well I've saved myself till my wedding night for my husband. My first experience was very romantic and it was my honeymoon which made it even better and it was all I've imagined. :)
ReplyDeleteA bit old school, huh? Well that was when it happened unfortunately.
Ah. The simple answer... I'm 28 and a virgin. Honestly for a while I gave up on the whole thing as I just believed no-one could ever be interested in me. To an extent I still believe that...
ReplyDeleteI'm 23 and still in the V Club.
ReplyDeleteI hope my first time will be with someone I love deeply and hope it will be very romantic and passionate. I'd like us both to be virgins as well.
I was 20, and my first time was with my amazing boyfriend, it was very scary, I remember being so nervous, (it wasn't his first) and I was still a little unsure of myself and my body... but he was amazing, romantic, and I don't think it would have better with anyone else.
ReplyDeleteI still want him despite the fact he treats me so badly.
ReplyDeleteI was 13, he was 16 and we were down at the lake. I really liked him but shockingly we didn't see each other after that. Boys.
ReplyDeleteI was sixteen and he was eighteen. Although he was my first, I wasn't his. He had the candles lit and music going and everything to make it romantic... only it wasn't. I lost faith that sex could ever be romantic after that.
ReplyDeleteIn my teens and a virgin. I'm pretty proud of it though. I'm not looking to have sex for now. Shocker, right? I hope my first time is memorable, and non- regrettable. Till then, I'm waiting very patiently.
ReplyDeleteI've only told my husband what happened with my first time.....it was unwanted. I went over to see this guy I'd hung out with a few times and we wound up on his bed kissing. He became forceful and before I knew it I was yelling at him "no" over and over but was too small and powerless (he was a big guy) to get him off me and make him stop. After I just pulled my pants back on and walked away. Never told a sole until I confided in my husband years later.
ReplyDeleteNot a good "first" time and I wouldn't wish that on anyone.
I was 16, my boyfriend was 20. I didn't know what the hell I was doing, and he had already had sex. I felt pressured and didn't have enough self confidence to say no. Either way, it lasted like 10 minutes. It wasn't rape, I was willing - just not fully. I disliked sex for years after that, with every other boyfriend. I've really changed in the past year though, making a concerted effort to live life on my terms, have sex when I WANT to, and now, well sex is pretty amazing.
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