Thursday, September 30, 2010

Secret Friday

"Tell your friend a lie. If he keeps it secret, then tell him the truth"
 ~ Portuguese Proverb.

The above quotation was shamelessly ripped off from Dolly at In Sight Of The Shore. Drop by and say hi sometime, tell her I sent ya. :)

Happy Friday guys!  Again I know I'm posting this a bit early, but it's already tomorrow in some parts of the world right? Welcome to round 40 of Secret Friday, a chance to share some secrets and/or fantasies you've been keeping to yourself. Some are uplifting, some are heartbreaking and some are just plain naughty.

All are valid.

Here's how this works:

1) This is open to anyone who wants to participate, from regular follower to casual visitor.

2) I don't plan to censor content or language. However I do reserve the right to remove anything which appears to be posted with the sole intent of offending. I also reserve the right not to remove content that may be considered controversial. It's a fine line sometimes.

3) If this is something you'd like to run on your blog please feel free. You can copy the rules if you'd like.

And now to it...


  1. it hurts like hell, to be ignored to be ditched, of the whole bunch of break ups i had to deal with, to not feel worthy in the first place, and what hurts more that i really dont know why they all do it the same way, am not needy am not a control freak, am a beautiful open minded girl who they get to regret later about leaving her, and still it happens, they leave without even caring to drop a goodbye.

    I freaking deserve more.

  2. I'm hurting really bad right now. Although I am not contemplating suicide, I have to admit, I dont know how to recover from such loss in my life as of late. I had invested all of me and gave up SO MUCH, now to be left on the sidelines and wondering if it is even worth waiting anymore. What are they REALLY saying between the lines of all their confused lies already?...

  3. I may never have sex for the rest of my life, that's the more probable thing to happen. The thing is right now, i feel like a weight has been pulled off of my shaulders. It feels liberating that i don't have to try hard to be pleasant at others, i don't desperately need someone else to like me and hoping and trying for him to love me and make the impossible possible in order to have a proper personal life at all costs. I feel like a terrible weight has lifted from me. I feel bitter that things didn't work out in my life, but i want my health, my job and my peace of mind. Don't shoot me.

  4. Barry; you commented on my page, you connected to me somehow with a shared moment, oceans apart- a single song, the haunting voice of a singer traveling through the dark in my cold, empty room, to the walls of yours.
    I feel I've been sleeping for the past few days, and the unexpected words of a stranger was perhaps what I needed to wake me up. Thank you.

  5. Hey Barry!
    I tagged you in something in my site. I hope you're doing well :D