Friday, January 29, 2010

Secret Friday

                                  "Secrets:2003" by Charli Siebert

Hi guys, I can't believe it's Friday already.  This week feels like it's flown by!  I know it's Saturday for some of you, so I hope you're enjoying a good start to your weekend.

Time now for the eighth installment of Secret Friday, a chance to anonymously share some secrets and/or fantasies you've kept to yourself.  Some are uplifting, some are heartbreaking and yes, some are just plain naughty.

All are valid.

If you get something from this I hope you'll consider hosting one on your blog as well. Feel free to copy and paste the guidelines below if you choose. All I ask is that you keep a regular eye on your feedback; contributions can be intense sometimes and people writing in need to be respected. It's very important. If you decide to do this on your blog please, please let me know. If we link to each other I think we could start something great.

Okay, here's how it works:

1) This is open to anyone who wishes to participate, from regular follower to casual visitor.

2) Post a secret or fantasy anonymously, no names please. It can be anything from mild to wild, anything goes. All I ask is that it's true. You can post as many as you're comfortable with.

3) I don't plan to censor content or language. However I do reserve the right to remove anything which appears to be posted with the sole intent of offending. I also reserve the right not to remove content that may be considered controversial. It's a fine line sometimes.

4) If you're someone who is easily offended by swearing or sexual content you may not want to read through the comments. I have no idea where this will go and won't be reviewing comments until after they are posted.

5) I'll be participating as well. (After seven of these I have to dig deeper!)

6) Feedback directed towards me is welcome, anonymously or otherwise.

7) As always I'd like everyone to please refrain from commenting on what someone else has written; what may seem trivial to you can be very personal to someone else. Everyone has feelings and I want to see them respected, therefore inappropriate remarks will be removed.

And now to it...


  1. I cried this morning. I thought I was going to be okay then as more and more time passes, I get more upset that he hasn't come back. I feel like I'm in a world where I'm a bother to everyone. Everytime I try to do something it fails or I'm in the way. Things happen for a reason but I'm praying there's a silver lining because I'm not sure how much more I can take. I know it'll be okay it's just that these dark times are destroying me. I've never felt like I've been in so much pain.

  2. I watch Project Runway even though I am boy and find girls extremely attractive. However, society has gendered this show by considering it to be a gay or a show for girls.


  3. I hate my body and how I look. My brain tells me that I'm fine - skinny and cute - but when I look in the mirror all I see myself as fat and gross. I would have an eating disorder if I wasn't scared of getting caught. So instead I only eat when other people are with me - the only thing I will eat alone is carrots because I can give most of them to my dog.

  4. I was waiting in line at the supermarket and some asshole bumped me in the bask of my legs and I really wanted to take his frickin' head off and sh** down his neck...and for what? Not paying attention to my personal space?

    Wow! That caffiene really is HAMMERING ME again?

  5. I'm a virgin (older than you'd think...), perenially rubbish at relationships and sick of hearing people say in time you'll find that right person because that isn't how things have worked... Or you need to get happy on your own, by yourself - I was but the world keeps telling me I shouldn't be...

  6. I found out that my brother, who I was estranged from for years, is doing crack again.

    It makes me question why the universe re-connected us at all.

  7. I want to run away to NYC with the little change I have in my pocket and never look back.Bu I am scared that I will fail at surviving.

  8. I have a disease that no one but a few people know about. Friends, family, and associates that don't know joke about it frequently in front of me. And at times I just want to shout the truth to watch them sulk with guilt....I get filled with enough rage to kill someone.